Reality is what you make it

In your entire life, I am pretty sure that you have asked yourself “how will I find reality?”.   Whenever you are down, you tend to question yourself, “is this reality?”

You do not need to look for “reality” … it is the condition of being actual or real. Your “reality” is your life NOW … at this moment, at this time and at this space. Your life NOW is your “reality”.

Life is what you make it … it is your own … not your parents, not your brothers, not your sister, not your friends and not anyone …Whether your current state is good or bad, your “reality” today is what you made it from the past. Do not blame anyone on what your life is today ... you made it … Never regret what you did in your life … it was your choice …

Try to be happy NOW … not tomorrow or yesterday ... for yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come … Happiness is a state of mind … because it is not a person or thing that brings you happiness but the way you think and feel about the person or thing … Therefore, nothing is stopping you to be happy. 

One basic “reality” that we all experience is every moment of our lives is full of options from which our choices create every outcome … you might be sitting on your chair right now with the choice of either watching TV or reading book. Whichever option you take at that moment will dictate the next few minutes of your life. Yes, destiny is TRUE … but DESTINY is based on the CHOICES “YOU” MAKE NOW …

It is for this reason that you need to DECIDE … there is NO such thing as a RIGHT or WRONG decision … the most important thing is you know how to handle the possible consequences of your decision. If your decision is to watch TV and what you are watching made you feel sad … change the channel and look for something that will make you happy.

Do not say that I will be happy if I will be successful in the next five years. You cannot really be successful in the next five years … but, you are successful NOW if you know by your heart and your mind that you did your best … 

A life worth living for is when you exist without the intention of harming or misleading others … on earth, you only have one life to live … give it your best shot! The “reality” is you live NOW … not in the “past” for the “past” is over and you cannot return it … not in the “future” because the “future” may not come …